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FREE ADULT CHAT ARTICLES - CYBERSPACE
SEX
Sex In Cyberspace
by Rose DesRochers
I am rubbing my keyboard. You are rubbing your mouse.
Cybersex, is it cheating on your partner? This is a controversial
issue, one that has started a good number of debates across
the internet. I would have to say of course it's considered
cheating; you are sharing intimate wants, needs and sexual
fantasies with another person; when you should only be
sharing those needs with your partner. Cybersex is described
as a mediated communication that virtual ourselves with
the intention of becoming turned on; intellectually, emotionally
and physically.
The bonds of marriage are already under so much stress
with our world today, cybersex robs a couple of intimacy
and time together. When the best part of your free time
is spent with someone outside of your spouse, when you
would rather be with that person than your spouse, when
that person is the person with whom you share your feelings,
your concerns, your needs and wants, you are cheating,
whether or not you have ever been in a cyber relationship
or a totally physically intimate relationship. It is a
physical act. Making love is as much in the mind and is
it is the body and cheating is an act of the mind just
as must as it is our body.
Cheating is exactly that cheating. It is cheating the
person, to whom you have made a commitment, of loyalty
trust love, be it of your mind or your body. So whether
it is on a keyboard, on a monitor, in a conversation or
in a bed, or on the phone breaking the commitment is breaking
the commitment. Cheating is cheating. It destroys the
bond of trust once that trust is lost it the hardest thing
to ever get back. Most people just do whatever makes them
happy and have no commitment to the vows they once made.
They feel that they won't get caught and it no different
than that of a movie but your being intimate with someone
over the computer your exchanging words to turn another
individual on. I have to say wake up people both people
behind those keyboards are real human being. There is
no train monkey typing here.
There is more ways than just one to have sex, than body
to body contact .Cybersex is coming from images of the
mind. You are expressing words that are arousing another.
You can rationalize it all you want, "This is just
cybersex, it's not real" or "I'm not emotionally
attached to this person". But if you feel guilty
about it, your conscience is telling you that you're doing
something wrong, something that may hurt the person you're
with, offline then you are cheating. Isn't cybersex just
as damaging as picking someone up at a bar and going home
with them?
It's entirely too easy for us to pretend that the person
on the other side of the chat isn't a real, living, person.
Your cyber lover’s heart can be broken just as easily
as your "real life" lover's heart can be. There's
a lot of focus on on-line sex and I think it's really
getting beyond the meet someone, masturbate and type at
the same time routine. It's about relationships and communication,
erotic identity and ideas." trust and betraying the
one you’re with.
Is it really just harmless fun? It’s more than just
words being typed on a screen it comes from images of
the mind and if you think the other person who typing
to you just laughing it up, boy are you wrong. It’s
also about the trading of nude pictures too and I guarantee
the person on the other side typing to you does not have
both hands placed on the keyboard .This is just another
example where the bonds of marriage are broken. The internet
can be a dangerous thing. Time for you to really look
at the relationship you have and ask yourself if you really
are happy and if you answer no then maybe its time you
ended the marriage, instead of involving another individual
in it.
You can’t justify your adultery that it is online
and not real. Adultery is still adultery. You cross that
line the moment you begin sneaking around to share intimate
thoughts with someone other than your partner. In cybersex
you have secrecy; intimacy and sex are all the same elements
as an affair. If you are having an affair or show signs
of cyber addiction it is now time to talk to a counselor.
Marriage can be beautiful but it takes communication and
two people making it work.
About The Author
Rose DesRochers,
admin@todays-woman.net
http://www.todays-woman.net
Rose is a published author from Canada Ontario and is
also the founder of http://www.todays-woman.net a community
for men and women over 18, where writers/poets/columnists
meet and exchange ideas, contest, rate and review and
help each other succeed in the writing industry. Check
out Rose's first poetry book "She is like the wind
" here and purchase poetry that is sure to be a world
of emotion on a canvas that is her soul. |
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